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Surfing the Waves of Fatigue

·287 words·2 mins
Fatigue from chronic illness doesn’t respond to rest. I picture it as a wave coming toward me. Caffeine, music, a splash of water on my face are my surfboard. Sometimes they hold. Sometimes the wave flings me off anyway.

The Pipe and the Voice

·1065 words·5 mins
I spent thirty years believing I hated writing. The problem was never writing. It was the barrier between my thoughts and the finished words, and the mom who saw that before I did.

Why a School Comes First

·873 words·5 mins
The ultimate goal is an organization for multiply disabled people. But most of us were taught we can’t contribute before we ever got the chance to try. The school rebuilds what the systems took.

One Accommodation at a Time

·1428 words·7 mins
Apple disables touch accommodations when VoiceOver is active. Disability services prescribes dictation for someone who can’t use it. Both come from the same assumption: that disabled people have one condition, one accommodation, one box to check.

The Account Nobody Can Deposit To

·1020 words·5 mins
The federal government created ABLE accounts so disabled people could receive funds without losing benefits. No fundraising platform will deposit to them. That’s not how this is supposed to work.

The Gap Nobody's Building For

·846 words·4 mins
I’ve been sitting with a vision for months. A learning program designed for multiply disabled people from the ground up. Not accommodations bolted onto a broken system, but something built for us as the default case. This isn’t a launch. It’s a ramp.

Becoming

·929 words·5 mins
A reflection on seven months of loss, change, and becoming. How my plans fell away so something else could take shape, and how I found peace with who I’m becoming, even while some questions remain unanswered.

The Team System

·652 words·4 mins
A school for the blind sorted kids into teams by cognitive ability. Team 5 was college-track. Team 6 was group home track. I was Team 5. When I asked for Team 6, they said no.

To Those Who Infantilize Me

·2428 words·12 mins
A lifetime of being talked down to, left out, and left behind by people who assumed I couldn’t rather than asking what I needed. This is what infantilization looks like from the inside, and what it costs the people it happens to.